Flirting Body Language
Before I get into anything about flirting and body language, it is important that you understand that flirting is natural. Flirting does not make a man a player or a woman promiscuous. It is only a natural reaction to seeing someone whom you find attractive. However, the extent of the flirting, and the language used can make the difference. So, stick to the limits of body language in flirting in this article and you should stay safe from the terrible adjectives.
Female Flirty Body Language in Women
Since the world follows the "ladies first" rule, I am going to play along. Body language of a flirtatious woman has been considered an enigma. That is probably because women prefer to be creative with their expressions in flirting and body language. They could try out pickup lines for girls one day, and try being the shy girl the next. Basically, their body language is not easy to read. Just keep these few tips in mind, and you should be fine (relatively).Crossing the legs and sitting is a classic flirting technique. She may switch the legs as well (Basic Instinct style).
Playing with the hair and smiling is another thing that women do involuntarily when they like a guy. So, if she is seen doing this, she most probably, is flirting.
Showing her bare neck and shoulders is a way to entice men as well. Women do it quite often when they are flirting with men.
When flirting, women maintain eye contact with the man. This prolonged eye contact makes the man listen more intently and get attracted to them.
Most women play with the round surface of the glass or the plate while flirting with men. The conversation goes on normally, but the hand movement is slow and steady.
While flirting, women tend to run their palm on their neck. They do this lightly and gently. This brings the man's attention to their neck, and it works as an attraction technique.
If a woman keeps touching the guy is some way or the other, like stroking his arm or playing with his hair, it is clear - she is flirting!
This cheat code is common for most women. However, being that women and complicated and, often, difficult to understand, they could mean other things by these activities. So, go with your gut instinct about it as well.
Flirting Body Language in Men
Now we come to the gentlemen. For very long it was believed that only men knew the art of flirting and body language. As such, men's flirty body language is a little bit more developed and can be stipulated with a bit more certainty. Let's see the body language and flirting of men.The first sign that a man is flirting with you is that he makes the effort to come and talk to you. It is a sweet gesture if you consider that fact that he is probably scared of how you will react.
Slight and fast raise of the eyebrows when he sees you and a smile when you look back at him is another sign, that he is attracted. This cannot always be observed, but if someone else sees it, they can tell you.
When flirting, men get macho and manly. They will try to impress the woman by seeming like the alpha male of the clan.
Guys will fidget with their looks a little bit when they flirt. This may not always happen, but it happens most of the time. The guy will straighten his hair and collar and dust off their sleeves.
Nervousness is one of the cutest signs that a guy is trying to flirt. When a guy gets nervous, it is almost certain that he is interested in the woman and is trying to flirt with her.
Broadening the shoulders and trying to look as broad and big as he can is a classic flirting sign. Very seldom can guys avoid this.
Guys will also try to maintain physical contact with the woman while flirting with her. However, they need to be a bit more careful as the woman (even if she is interested) may mind that.
Women can be perceptive, as such more than just depending on these signs of flirting, women can depend on their gut instinct.
Playful body language should neither be taken very seriously, nor should be taken lightly. It means that the person is interested, however, if it is not appreciated, the decline can be curt and thoughtful. Flirting is common among friends as well. At this time the flirting and body language signs almost remain the same. Bottom line, go with the flow and have fun. This is where I sign off! Hope these flirting tips helped you out!
